Will you be seeing/Do you want to see your man
on your wedding day before the ceremony starts?
I always adored tradition of not seeing him before, and I've ever been a person who is superstitious...so....
now I am starting to fall in love with the intimate moment that's in my head when I see him before we become man and wife. We are pretty old-fashioned and traditional, but we like to go against the norms and be different at times. I really would love that moment before the ceremony to share before we take the next step and say our vows. After all, what better way to spend your last moments of being engaged than with your future husband right before the ceremony? It is a very personal decision, and I know my guests might think its weird or, even worse, "bad luck." Thoughts?
Please leave a comment.
I really need thoughts and opinions!
If you've already done this, please tell me how it felt
and what it was like seeing each other beforehand.
P.S.
Also, found a helpful site here that talks about
the "to-see-or-not-to-see-before-the-wedding" thing.
1. Unknown.
5 comments:
We are doing the "first look." It just makes things much easier and you get to share a special moment together before it all begins. :) And, I just LOVE the photos that come out of it!
I dont think we will do a first look, but I do want to talk to him (possibly ala Smallville through a door or something :P)
Also, thank you for the amazingly sweet and kind comment on my proposal post and your congrats! :D
Lyn,
Wow, that sounds amazing! I bet it will calm some of the butterflies in both your stomachs and create a serene tone for the ceremony as you both may let out some tears of joy and excitement. I'm sure it will be very special and unforgettable! I've seen some photos of brides and grooms who have done this--so authentic and priceless!
Bellanouva,
You're so welcome! Very happy for you! Oh, I love the "talking-through-door" idea. That must heighten the excitement for when he sees you walk down the aisle and it sounds incredibly romantic! Plus, that would create such tender, beautiful photos. Thanks for sharing. And again, huge Congrats and happy planning :)
lol I just noticed you replied to me! We need to get reply buttons on Blogger, stat! I do love the idea for exactly those reasons!
Bellanouva,
I have no idea how to get a Blogger reply button. Sounds like a great idea. Do those exist?
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